refactor(dexcel): 重构Excel工具库依赖和功能

- 将底层Excel库从calamine和rust_xlsxwriter切换到umya-spreadsheet
- 更新版本号从0.1.0到0.4.0
- 降低Rust edition从2024到2021
- 添加新的样式设置功能(style命令)，支持行高、列宽、自动换行设置
- 修改delete命令支持范围删除(前N行、后N行、指定范围)
- 移除自动创建文件功能，insert操作要求文件必须存在
- 添加thiserror和tempfile依赖用于错误处理和临时文件操作
- 更新tabled和clap依赖版本
- 完善README文档，新增样式设置相关说明和示例
- 保留完整的Excel样式(颜色、字体、边框等)功能
- 修改query输出格式，移除分隔符参数，统一使用表格格式显示

dexcel/Cargo.toml

@@ -1,11 +1,12 @@
 [package]
 name = "dexcel"
-version = "0.1.0"
-edition = "2024"
+version = "0.4.0"
+edition = "2021"
 
 [dependencies]
-calamine = { version = "0.26", features = ["dates"] }
-clap = { version = "4.5", features = ["derive"] }
-rust_xlsxwriter = "0.80"
-tabled = "0.16"
 chrono = "0.4"
+clap = { version = "4.6", features = ["derive"] }
+umya-spreadsheet = "2.3"
+tabled = "0.20"
+thiserror = "2.0"
+tempfile = "3.27"